Pro-tip to dudes trying to hit on me through tumblr messaging—I don’t even answer the sweet, wonderful ladies who message me on here because after one of your ilk (who I had never even corresponded with) found my phone number using the internet and proceeded to stalk me for a year, calling me over 300 times a day and threatening to ruin my life if I didn’t have phone sex with him, I am pretty well cautioned against making personal connections on this interface. Please re-evaluate your boundaries and try to imagine that women are people with emotional lives and agency equal to your own.