[The void is] the anguished experience of lack of balance. We have been unjustly treated, insulted, humiliated: we want to get our own back, to get even, if need be to hurt innocent people as we have been hurt.

Iris Murdoch, Metaphysics as a Guide to Morals (New York: Penguin Books, 1992), 502.

In love, the lovers do not succeed in coinciding with each other, so to speak. Fashionable sadness! Love, however, is the proximity of the other—where the other remains other. I think that when the other is ‘always other,’ there is the essence of love.

Emmanuel Levinas, from an interview with Francois Poirie, Is It Righteous to Be? Interviews with Emmanuel Levinas (via ecrituria)